July 9, 2010 - 12:39am — Blackfeathr
Hey guys, it's been a long time...
First off I'd like to apologize to anyone I've hurt in the past. I know it's a little long, but if you'll bear with me and listen/read, I will explain why I was, and sometimes still am, so bitter.
It all started going downhill in 2007, well, 2002 is when it all started, but I was in high school and enjoyed all my days there. But when I graduated, shit got thrown into perspective. I graduated in 2007 and we had rescued a German Shepherd. My mom took him for a walk one day and got attacked by two large Golden Retrievers and got yet another concussion (her first was in 2002 which forced her to retire from work). Surgery after surgery was done and we started losing a lot of money. Eventually the lawyer handling our case pussied out and the case was closed. Plus with both parents out of work, I am the only person in this household employed right now, and I have a minimum wage job. I was a supervisor, for a time, at my work, but butting heads with the other supervisor (who always had an attitude problem and didn't care for me very much), caused me to step down because of all the stress. And then, starting college that same year, I felt so lost, confused, no one would help me with all this, and my grades were slipping.
Well, in the three years in between, my mom's health and my health got worse. In February 2008 I was diagnosed with Prolactinoma, which means I have a small brain tumor. I was also diagnosed with Hashimoto's Thyroiditis making me dependent on medications for the rest of my life. And then, after passing out three times within two years, they diagnosed me with Vasovagal depression, which means I can pass out being in a high stress or high heat environment. And then, just last year, which leads me to my anger issues, is that I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, meaning I get severe pain at random times and it often hinders my work and my life. Work was something I no longer enjoyed, it was an endurance match to see how long I would last while having the most horrendous pain that I'd need to rest for two days to recuperate from a 6 hour shift. The doctor put me on a medication that would control it, called Lyrica. My mom was on Lyrica for her Fibromyalgia but she had to be taken off because she would get angry and go crazy at even the slightest annoyance.... the last straw was when she almost got in a fist fight with a random lady at the park. I thought I would be different. I wasn't. I started losing friends left and right because I would fly off the handle at something so small. Even my friends who stuck with me for many years, noticed that I was quick to get angry. My mom's state of affairs wasn't helping either. Every now and then, at least twice a month, she gets angry for no reason, screaming at me and my stepdad for something asinine. She won't even let my stepfather talk to his own son because she hates him. The last time we went on a road trip together, she screamed at us for walking because apparently the sound of us walking upstairs was annoying to her. I am trying, really trying to not be like her. I am failing. I don't want to be like her, she has all but very few friends left, and she cant grasp the concept of differing opinions anymore. I try to keep myself distant.
I'm weaning off this medication that made me a monster. I realized that I have a problem. This place was therapy for me, and I hope to come back to be at peace once again.
To SarieBearie, I'm so sorry I've acted like a bitchy ex-girlfriend type against your decisions involving Vipin. I do hope you are well, and I understand if you don't want to speak with me.
To Pegasicorn: I am also sorry for causing a lot of trouble within the community. I do hope you forgive me.
To anyone else that I may have forgotten, I apologize as well.
I realize that I created something when I was here, I conjured my muse, Heliosphere. He's not just a deer, his human form is a part of me, its more primal emotions and he is connected to my soul in many ways. It took this community to bring his visual form out. So thank you. Thank you Michael and Auriea, and thank you everyone for (somewhat) tolerating me. I do hope that this time I may come to heal, mend burned bridges, and make more friends as I return to the Endless Forest.
Thank you for reading,
--Blackfeathr
All I can wish you is good
Is there any chance that, if you need something for your Fibromialgia again, you could ask for something different? If not, then definitely go with trying to wean off of it. What a stupid medication. :/
Anyhow, I'll be hoping for you!
@ Ocean there are different
Either way though, I suppose I will just control it some other way.
I hope TEF can be a safe,
I'm sorry things have been so
What's extremely amazing to
I don't know that I ever apologized for helping to set you off with Sarie. It was a long time ago and we were all in a selfish depression over things... so, I'm sorry. I'm especially sorry that I never bothered to get to know you like this because I would have been so much more comforting and beloved over you. Everything right now is pretty stable though so I'm happy to see you come back, let alone at a much better time.
Hello, then. <3
I'm really... really happy to see you back. And I wish the best of luck to you and your entire family; I know you can go through with all this because you're strong, and now you have the entire TEF community to back you up on that. ;; I love you in my own way.
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TEF is a lot of people's therapy, really - just happens to be one of the things such a calming environment is good for. We still love you, babe. <3 If it cheers you up even the tiniest bit, your icon still makes me choke on various liquids.
Forest FAQ
Thank you everyone
Also, that pishar is so beautiful Pega, thanks <333333333333333
& Fayne, I lol'd. :B
I do my best "talking"
*nuzzles* I hope the best for
I was wondering where you had been, too...
Think I saw you in the forest
bloody Hell, you have no idea
after the entire "situation"...well, I can't blame you for having acted bitchy. I wronged you, and I'm completely aware of that, though now I've see you've matured and so have I. I'm so, so sorry for how I treated you and how Vipin, in turn, treated GoldenWinged, but it makes me ecstatic to see you..I don't know..so forgiving? a lot of stupid crap has happened to you and to everyone. I'm overjoyed that we're all able to put it behind us. thank you. <3 I missed your amazing icon too, foo' <3
Wow, Blackfeathr. It's been
I'm very happy to see you again and I hope you find peace here. c:
You probably don't think you know me, but I think you do (I could be wrong). I hope I'm correct on this, but you played WQ under the same account name some time ago. Yes? If not than ignore this babbling non-sense. c:
I believe we got in a scabble on WQ a long, long, looooong time ago. Anyways, it ended with me getting banned and I believe you aswell. The site coordinators happened to forget that they banned me and left me banned for some 5 monthes. I thought I was being severly punished and I honestly was very mad at you. I just wanted to let you know that I'm very sorry about whatever happen back there. I can't even remember for goodness sake! And beyond that it was not your fault I was extra banned, it was the dang coordinators. I'm just so happy to see you back here. <3